Affairs & Infidelity
Borderline Personality Disorder
Welcome! My name is Elvita Kondili and I provide marriage therapy and individual counseling in Charlotte, NC. I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor and I help people make changes in life and achieve long-term success Initially, you may be skeptical about what therapy has to offer and talking to someone you don’t know can be difficult. I believe that a good working relationship with your therapist is key to success. I encourage you to read through this site and learn more about my style, approach and background as well as review testimonials from previous clients.
I provide counseling for addiction (alcohol and drug use, sexual addiction, gambling, over spending, etc), anxiety and depression, low self-esteem, stress, life changes, relationship issues, affairs and infidelity, codependency, adult children of dysfunctional families, gay and lesbian issues, etc. I counsel on the ability to manage difficult emotions like sadness, anxiety, anger or stress and changing or stopping unhealthy habits, compulsive behaviors and learning self-discipline.
In addition to individual counseling, I provide marriage therapy or relationship counseling (for unmarried couples). I often counsel couples after a partner has engaged in an extra-marital affair, including having an affair online. But I also help couples deal with issues of intimacy, sex and desire. I help couples with relationship satisfaction, improving communication, establishing emotional safety, managing conflict and learn relationship skills.